How many times have you heard yourself saying, “I know that” or “this is the way it is”? Words that when said together completely close the door to possibility.
In the video above a kind man reflects on how stories and opinions (usually based on what others have said) do not reflect the true and expanded nature of an animal, person, or even a theory or philosophy.
He says about Jack, the fox in this story – “A fox looks like a dog and purrs like a cat, but in fact it is neither.”
He suggests that we need to set aside any pre-conceived notions or opinions and learn about the fox by getting close to it, see how it reacts and observe attitudes. Each and every animal (human) possesses a certain make up that is entirely their own.
Though you may think that this short video is on the story of a fox and the man who rescued him, think again. Life as it is reveals constant uncertainty and change whether we like it or not….so get on that horse and ride!
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Nogie King in The Currency of Connection states beautifully:
“I believe that we sit at the edge of an evolutionary impulse that can move human kind into a radical and collective realignment with wholeness, purpose and grace. Life has always been an extraordinary process for creative potential. What is different now is our growing ability to perceive and then actualize engagement that is our natural birthright.”
With curiosity I invite you to enter the world of money as a vibrant, loving relationship just waiting to connect us to not only our own potential, but also to the creative genius of just about everything on this planet of ours. If you are like me, you most probably have had, or are still having, a rocky relationship with money. Not your idea of the ideal loving, respectful, and trusting relationship that we all yearn for I bet!
What has helped me tremendously over the past few weeks after quitting a job that I allowed to rob me of creative juice and flow, is to remember that money in and of itself first came into being with the purpose of fostering and celebrating human relationships. It has now become something else for many people – something that adds stress to daily life – perhaps unnecessary stress at that.
Looking at money through the lens of relationship can be a fascinating journey and can provide insights that just may surprise you! Relationship with yourself, with others, with our planet, and with money itself most probably deeply embedded in scarcity and lack in some form or another.
I am reminded of the days growing up that we used to play Monopoly. Loved handling all that play money and buying the prime properties while hoping that one of the other players would land on my high density housing prime space and have to hand over more money for rent!
We needed to be in relationship in that game. Face to face, throwing the dice to see what would happen next in our relationship with each other and our money. Out of necessity it would often go on for hours as money changed hands back and forth.
Life lessons were tucked in there as well like landing in jail and hoping for a “Get Out of Jail Free” card to release you back into the game and back into relationship with the other players.
Well have you ever thought that we put ourselves in jail and restrict the easy flow of money and vibrant alive relationship in our lives because of deeply engrained patterns that were put down early in our tender lives for what we thought was survival?
Here is a part of my story to make this more personal and to highlight the fact that how we use money is an opportunity for our own spiritual awakening and an expression of our fundamental interconnectedness.
I was either in a state of worry and fear around where the next dollar was coming from, or when I did have money it rather slipped away from me. I was always trying to find ways to get more back into my bank account. This went on for many years even through times when I had plenty of money to support myself and my growing children.
At the same time I was creating relationships with men in much the same way. Two marriages, another long term partner, and quite a number of other relationships later I finally found myself taking a look at both my relationship with money and with men. Bet you won’t be surprised that there were some underlying beliefs that were interwoven in both relationships.
When my mother died suddenly at the early age of 39 when I was only 14 years old I of course felt abandoned by someone that I really needed at that time in my life. The connection had been broken and I took it on as something that I must have done. My underlying belief at this time was that I must not be worthy which was unconsciously supported by my father who went into a deep depression leaving me to take on the responsibility of my younger brother and the household. In a way he had abandoned me by not honoring that I had needs too.
What did I do? I created a belief system and pattern that lasted until just recently. Work hard (read struggle here) to take care of others to make certain you are appreciated and loved, i.e worthy; push down your own needs, desires and passion (stay hidden); create relationships with people and money where “rescue” is needed (so that I could prove I was loved); and not only attract unavailable men, but leave relationships first before they can leave you.
Can you draw a parallel between these patterns and my relationship with money? Essentially not feeling worthy in my own essential self (money slipping through my hands and creating “rescue” scenarios), taking on others desires and passions as my own (struggling to bring money in through others businesses/visions that were not in alignment with my whole hearted creative expression ), and setting up the abandonment before I can be abandoned (I am not worthy).
I think you get the picture here. We are in a very powerful time on our planet right now where each one of us has the opportunity to repattern into “wholeness, purpose and grace” in a way that honors our own highest potential as well as that of every other life form on this planet. If we don’t do this our species has the potential to disappear!
This time is about creatively connecting and collaborating within the deep interconnection that sustains all of us – every single life form on this planet. It is called Unity – the yoga of life. In order to open to this way of being each one of us must take the inner journey of clearing anything in the way of truly being ourselves in the world.
Since money is a large part of our life, and always will be present in some way, why not create a trusting, flowing, sufficient, honest and loving relationship with it. It really does want to love you back and is the currency of connection!!
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You are on a journey, just as we all are. The adventure of “What will the next breath bring?” It can be a roller-coaster ride, that journey, but as you say once you are on the downward curve of the overpass, there’s no turning back (because of the momentum not just of yourself but of all those cars around you). It’s only when you come off that sweeping arc that you are faced with choice and the head has a chance to say “Which way now?” And for all of us, it’s not long before it adds: “I should turn back!”
Turning back is an option, but not in the same lane. That would be to immerse yourself in struggle, to attempt to go back to where you were inside the conformity funnel we mentioned. But a lot of us do retrace our steps, returning back (along the other lane at least) to a place where we think we are safe. Yet it never is.
There’s a good reason for this. Nothing ever happens twice in the same way. Not a single thing. That’s the flaw of relying on beliefs (based on past experience) versus unfolding in the flow of faiths (trusting in the unknown future).
It’s Easter weekend right now, so let’s take a look around us. We’ve all lived through Easters-past. Each of us. Yet whatever we might do to try to repeat one of those Easters, we just can’t. Things have shifted within us. Our cells have inevitably changed, some of them sloughing off, others growing afresh. We are not the some beings we were last Easter, let alone a decade ago. In fact: our bodies are entirely made up of new cells compared to a decade ago. We’ve been born afresh, like one of the billions of incubating eggs sitting right now in nests all over the world…
So, if we are entirely new why is it we hold onto memories? Why do we favour beliefs that hold us in the conformity funnel rather than living in trust that all areas of our lives will renew themselves, just as our cells do, each day? Because we are taught to behave that way. Our “elders and betters” tell us it’s the way to go and the hive mentality is strong within us, born from our deep desire to belong, to fit in, to be safe, secure, loved. Yet that is the way of ultimate dissatisfaction, of compromise that more often than not leads to our cells malfunctioning, creating what we call dis-ease.
Why would anyone turn from the logical comfort of belief to the illogicality of faith? Because examples of “nothing ever happening twice” are all around us, in every nook and corner we may care to look.
Our world is not a static one. Watch the sun dip over the horizon and you suddenly become aware of the speed at which out planet spins. Look at micro-organisms under a powerful magnifying glass and you will see a world of perpetual movement. Cast your mind out and you’ll see the whole galaxy of the Milky Way is hurtling (is it forward or back?) along at remarkable speed. And the universe itself is expanding outward, like the exhalation of an enormous breath, pushing itself into new territory with each passing second. Territory where it has never been before.
Nothing ever happens twice in the same way. We are never in the same place more than once. We are ever-moving beings, emitting our own unique frequency within a world of vibration. The trick is to enhance that vibration within us: to resonate most powerfully with the natural wealth that brings us Love, Wealth, Health and Self-Expression.
Beliefs hold us back from that. They say “Do it the old way, the way you know best”. Yet, the old way is (for most of us) not one that brought us Natural Wealth in the four forms mentioned above. It’s usually the way that brought us lack, fear, doubt….
Faiths allow us to breathe. They direct us to the very moment in which we are, right now: whether that be driving along the overpass, turning left or right, filling in a twelve-page form, or showering beneath the outstretched arms of a tall oak!
Each of those moments is a balancing act between the head whispering “Do it the old way, Gaye!” “Trust your belief-systems!” “Do it the same way as everyone else!” and the heart which is simply beating the consistent pulse that resonates throughout each cell of your body, causing you to emit microwaves of energy that reach out into the room around you, exploring your world with inevitable, insatiable curiosity as they ripple out into Austin (if that’s where you move) across the arid lands of Texas, informing you of fluctuations in the winds over the rolling oceans, dancing between the leaves of banana plants in the tropics, reclining on the remotest volcanic outcrop in the Pacific at precisely the same moment as they shiver along the highest peaks of the Himalayas. Not content with this, they simultaneously weave their way deep into the ground beneath your feet, fingering the rich soil, flashing through the Earth’s molten core in the very same instant as they cast themselves into the skies overhead, instantaneously caressing the hugest nebulae and the tiniest sub-atomic quark…giving you feedback on all of these things (and many more) each and every second of each day.
The (logical part of the) head deals with one thing at a time. It can only process thoughts based on past experiences. The (illogically consistent) heart resonates with everything in existence, right now at this very moment. As such, it touches all things past and all things future too, unifying them in this very moment, as you take each breath.
Which one has the greater power? Ah, well, that’s not for me to say…
But I will say this: have a wonderful, relaxing Easter Weekend!
Love and Best Wishes,